
Dorothy knew what she was talking about: there’s no place like home. Santa Fe is stunning anytime of year, but especially at the holidays. And while Buttercup and I were loath to leave it, the nurturing bosom of Fort Stockton is always a welcome sight.
After unpacking and going through the stack of mail on the kitchen table, the first order of business was heading over to the Grounds for Divorce. I wanted to check on Lucinda and make sure she survived the holiday. This was the first Thanksgiving since she sent Delgado packing. Having two grown daughters with their own share of experiencing the trauma of love gone wrong, I was concerned.
I shouldn’t have been.
Lucinda is as resilient as she is easy on the eyes and said it had been a great holiday. It didn’t appear that she was stretching the truth in any way. “Delgado was just a chapter. I don’t look at it as being ‘over,’” she said. “Just finished. I’ve moved on.” And I suppose she has.











Of course, I had to wander over to the corkboard next to the wall phone over by the cash register to see what pictures had been added in her “Feast of Cars” pie promotion. There had certainly been some good ones pinned up before we left town. I was pretty sure there would be more. I wasn’t disappointed.


“Mrs. Drury dropped off that one,” Lucinda said as she pointed to the upper right hand corner. The card next to the snapshots read, “The year Mom brought a new husband to Thanksgiving dinner. It had only been six months since Dad passed. The family was shocked to meet Ed. Even more shocked to find out he drove an Edsel. So many questions . . . .”
“Becky from the Ben Franklin dropped off this pair,” Lucinda said. She pointed to a couple pictures tacked up to the board together. Lucinda smiled at first, then chuckled under her breath.


The picture showed two lovely young women from the late sixties standing in front of a fire engine red Pontiac Tempest coupe. The hair was piled high on each of their heads. Each was dressed smartly in a two piece suit, their arms wrapped around each other.
The card read, “The year Aunt Sally brought home her ‘new friend’. Dad said at least we wouldn’t need any more chairs at the kids’ table.”
“This was a sweet one,” Lucinda said. “Well, bittersweet, I guess. Chad dropped it off.”


The pictures looked newer than most of the rest of them on the cork board. The car was the only one that was a foreign make out of all of them. The card next to it was simple, the handwriting hard to make out. Kind of scratchy. “My mom in the kitchen. My brother and his young family out front. Never dreamed it would be the last time we were all together.”
I looked at the board. There were dozens of photos of cars and families and dining room tables and multiple generations. Photos pinned up that hadn’t seen the light of day in years perhaps. I told Lucinda that she’d done a good job coming up with the idea. “It’s been good for business,” she said.
She made it sound like it was a business decision, when I knew darn well that wasn’t it at all. “How much pie did you end up giving away in the last week and a half?” I asked her.
“I went through a lot of pies, no doubt,” she replied. “But a lot of people came in to pin up their pictures and get their free pie but then stayed all morning talking about Thanksgiving from years past . A lot of them stayed for lunch. Most all left big tips. In the end, it worked out well for everybody. Pastor Peterson even said he was going to use some of the Kodachrome images in his holiday message. Who knew the whole thing would end up being so inspirational?”


I glanced down at a couple of pictures and an index card tucked in at the bottom of the cork board. There was a picture of a ’58 Pontiac Bonneville coupe with a seasoned couple leaning against the passenger side. The picture beside it was a group of older folks and two young boys. “Rusty dropped that off the other day,” Lucinda said. “Read the card.”
It wasn’t a card, actually. It was written on the back of a hardware store receipt. It said, “My brother and me. We couldn’t wait to get away from the table and go play. What I wouldn’t give to go back and talk to those relatives now.”









And such is the circle of life. Thanksgivings and memories and food and relatives we look forward to seeing, and those we’ll never see again. Not on earth, anyway. And we celebrate the cars that take us on all those journeys, from holiday to holiday and memory to memory and to see the relatives and what they drive.
We now focus on the next holiday and all that goes along with it. And look for Peace on Earth, and Goodwill Towards Men. And stories that cause a chuckle, make us think, or remind of us something from a long time ago.
Have a good week,

5 responses to “FROM THE BACK OF THE BERMUDA, 12/1/2024”
Amazing – and I guess that we all have photos of Big Sis (or someone) talking on the phone in the privacy of the pantry! Love will have its way!
What I meant to say was, Next are the photos of the family Christmas Tree from back in the day – for me that would be the ’50’s. With the scrawny tree bought at Weingarten’s, that was worth the $5.00, but the memory of it as a great, magnificent, magical present-filled happy place. As I’ve said, ignorance is bliss when you’re young and poor.
Ah Mi Capitan,
I have been absent too long, with much on my plate. And, you ground me like few can. “I cant quit you” well I could in the biblical sense, as that is not my proclivity. But as I read this, a swarm of memories blanketed my clouded memory… names and faces blurring with time and some tears…
Recovering from kidney donation gives one respite? reflection? I have been referred to as a hero, alas this is not the case, as heroes run into burning buildings to rescue kittens, jump from Higgins Boats into frigid North Sea waters under heavy machine gun fire and on and on, whereas me, just trying to make sure she outlives me so I do not have to bear the burden of her departure….sounds like cowardice frankly.
Anyhow great read, anyone of the candid photos could be my family….
We are more alike than different as evidenced by such photos.
Happy Holidays
Much as Lucinda seems to not want to continue in her position of heading up the Comment of the Week Committee, I am going to do all I can to see that you get the recognition you deserve for the above musings. Welcome back. I hope we continue to get some worthy insights on your experience.
“The year Mom brought a new husband to Thanksgiving dinner. Dad had only been six months since Dad passed. The family was shocked to meet Ed. Even more shocked to find out he drove an Edsel. So many questions . . . .”
Honestly, though, what else would someone named Ed drive?
Good way to start the month, Captain.